Start flightgear with
fgfs --jsclient=socket,in,<hz>,,<port>,udp \
     --prop:/jsclient/axis[i]="/property/you/want/to/control" \
     --prop:/jsclient/axis[i+1]="/another/property/you/want/to/control" ...
eg:
# fgfs --aircraft=yf23-yasim --airport=KEMT --jsclient=socket,in,5,,16759,udp \
  --prop:/jsclient/axis[0]="/controls/flight/spoilers" \
  --prop:/jsclient/axis[1]="/radios/comm/volume"

Start the server on the machine with the remote gameport:
JsServer <host> <port>
eg: 
# JsServer 192.168.1.1 16759

(JsServer can be started before or after fgfs)